I’m really glad you’re here - truly.

My divorce took over three years to come to semi-completion. It doesn’t take up all the space in my life anymore, but it’s still there like a shadow in the background, sometimes faint, sometimes more noticeable, but no longer defining me.

I’ve learned a lot - mostly the hard way. I was naïve… so naïve. About who I was married to, how the legal system actually works, how complicated finances can get, and how easy it is to react instead of respond. I’ve had to learn co-parenting (and at times, parallel parenting) when what I once hoped for just wasn’t possible.

I’ve had 2 attorneys on retainer, at least 15 consults (most paid), went through mediation with an Attorney and then with a private Judge and arbitration with a Judge, motions filed, counter filed, multiple Divorce Financial Analysts, financial planners, social worker, therapists, co-parenting specialist, divorce coach — you name it — I’ve hired them. I even became a Certified Divorce Coach with 6 months of training just to learn about the process to get educated in a more cost effective way. Yup!

I’m not someone with endless funds and there was financial control in my situation. I had to be my own investigator and advocate at a time when I wanted to crawl into bed everyday. I’ve learned the hard way and I don’t want anyone to have to go through that…EVER!

Divorce is a kind of death … the death of expectations, of the story you thought you were living, of the version of your life you once believed in. It shakes your sense of reality and forces you to rebuild everything from the ground up.

As painful as it is, it’s also an awakening. You’ll find new strength you didn’t know you had. You’ll see parts of yourself you lost along the way. You’ll become smarter, wiser, more aligned with the real you, the new version of you. AND, there is joy and laughter along the way; sometimes when you least expect it.

Divorce isn’t a failure. It’s a pivot - a chance to rebuild your life authentic to the next version of you.

I’m here to help you stay focused on what matters most, to get clarity through the chaos, and to navigate the legal, financial, emotional, and social parts of this journey with confidence and compassion.

Together, we’ll help you move from heartbreak to healing AND from darkness to light.

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“The wound is the place where the light enters you.”
— Rumi

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